What Do You Tend To Make It Mean About You?

The garden doesn’t explain itself. It just grows the way it grows.

When something doesn’t go the way you expected, your mind doesn’t just register it — it fills in a meaning. A missed call becomes evidence you’re forgettable. A hard conversation becomes proof you’re too much, or not enough. We rarely notice we’re doing this. We just feel the conclusion, and believe it.

I’ve watched this pattern in clients for years, and I’ve watched it in myself. The event passes quickly. The meaning we attach to it can stay for decades.

What do you tend to make it mean about you?

Just notice the pattern. You don’t have to untangle it this morning.

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